Many people avoid
entering in the pain of a trauma through a ‘drama’ like, a ‘poetry’ like or a
so-called ‘spiritual’ vocabulary and behavior whatever that means for them.
Transcending does not mean avoiding; transcending can happen only once we are
truly facing the pain and going through it. We cannot fly without a ground to
take off and so first we have to accept and sink in ‘our ground’ no matter what
it feels like.
(Goradana)
"People are afraid of themselves, of their
own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is,
but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught
that pain is evil and dangerous.
How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to
feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re
wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the
experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is
a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel
ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality.
You should stand up for your right to feel your
pain."
(Jim Morrison)
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